
My Approach
I help clients using modern science-based therapies within a safe, caring, respectful and highly collaborative therapeutic relationship.
How do I do that?
In my work with clients I use an innovative combination of "third wave" cognitive and behavioral therapies, especially Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), as well as modern neuroscience.

Sounds fancy, huh? but what does all that mean?
Let’s break it down…
What are “third wave” cognitive and behavioral therapies (CBTs)?
Let’s start with the CBT part…
The term “Cognitive Behavior Therapies”, or CBTs, refers to a “family” of therapies that share a common commitment to scientific excellence in the pursuit of effective approaches to healing and change. CBT has a remarkable record of research support for its’ effectiveness, and is widely considered the “gold standard” or “frontline treatment” for many common mental health and behavior problems.
ok.. what about this “third wave” thing?
Third-wave cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) represents the latest evolution in evidence-based psychological treatment. To understand it, it's helpful to look at the progression of behavior therapy over time, which has happened in three main “waves”:
The first wave, beginning in the 1950s, focused on behavior therapy—using conditioning techniques like reinforcement and exposure to help people modify unhelpful behaviors. The second wave, emerging in the 1970s, introduced cognitive therapy, recognizing how thoughts shape emotions and actions. This led to “traditional” Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which teaches people to challenge and change “negative” thought patterns to address problems.
The third wave, starting in the 1990s, took a different approach. Instead of aiming to eliminate difficult thoughts and emotions, therapies like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) seek to change our relationship to our thoughts and feelings, so they no longer hold us back, whether they change or not. Third wave approaches also tend to place a greater emphasis on living a full, rich and meaningful life as the goal of therapy, as opposed to earlier approaches, which emphasized reducing “symptoms”.
Third wave approaches emphasize the role of mindfulness, values and compassion as essentials for effective living. You can read more about these concepts below.
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The term Mindfulness refers to a set of psychological skills that all involve paying attention with flexibility, curiosity and nonjudgmental acceptance to our present moment experience. Formerly associated mostly with contemplative practices such as Buddhist meditation and practices in other ancient wisdom traditions, mindfulness is now widely viewed as a central component of modern psychotherapy largely due to an incredible depth of research demonstrating is effectiveness for many different issues. Mindfulness has even been shown in brain imaging research to help our brains grow in positive ways!
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A focus on values adds an existential dimension to traditional CBT. Bringing values into therapy means not just trying to help you feel better (although we will certainly aim for that!), but also helping you clarify who and what it is that you most care about, who you want to be in life and how you want to spend your precious time on this earth. Your values can then serve as a kind of guide, or inner “compass”, that can guide your forward in life, and help motivate you to do that hard work of confronting your challenges and problems.
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Compassion simply means noticing when we or others are hurting and responding with kindness. In recent years, research has demonstrated that having compassion for ourselves improves mental health and performance across many areas of life, and also to help create a more stable sense of wellbeing and self worth.
Specific therapies I use in my practice include:
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ACT is a type of “third wave” therapy that can help you to develop practical mindfulness skills, clarify your values, set goals and take action to improve your life. ACT has extensive empirical support for its’ effectiveness with a wide range of issues, including over 1,000 random-controlled research trials (the highest standard in research for psychotherapies). I have extensive training in ACT, and I use it as a foundational approach in my work.
You can read more about ACT Here
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Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is a type of behavioral therapy for anxiety disorders and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) that involves gradually exposing individuals to their fears while preventing them from engaging in their usual compulsive behaviors, and instead practicing new, more helpful ways to respond. ERP helps us break free from the vicious cycle of anxiety and develop skills to respond more flexibly to anxiety and obsessions.
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Emotion Efficacy Therapy (EET) is a newer form of therapy that integrates elements of ACT, emotion regulation skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and ERP into one powerful therapy protocol. EET provides a series of practical skills to increase our ability to respond to emotions with effectiveness, and do what matters most to us.
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CFT is a type of CBT developed especially for clients with mental health challenges, and who struggle with shame, self-loathing, and harsh self-judgment and criticism. CFT can help you to develop a more supportive, understanding, and kind relationship with yourself, so that you can feel true confidence and self-acceptance, motivate yourself without shame, heal emotional wounds, face your difficulties, and thrive.
You can read more about CFT Here
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Schema Therapy
Behavior Activation
Cognitive Therapy
Integrating practical neuroscience
In recent years, scientists have made significant gains in understanding how our brains and nervous systems function, and in understanding some of the underlying neurobiological factors related to the types of psychological and behavioral issues that bring people into therapy. Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) and Polyvagal Theory (PVT) are two areas of scientific theory and research I pull from in order to provide practical education to my clients about their brains and nervous systems, which helps them better understand their thoughts, feelings and behavior, and not take them so personally (to see that how we think, feel and behave makes sense, given how ALL of our brains work!). You can learn more about these areas of science here:
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IPNB is an interdisciplinary field of research pioneered by Dr. Dan Siegel and others, that seeks to understand how our minds, brains and relationships relate to one another, and to apply this understanding in order to improve people’s lives. You can read more about IPNB Here.
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Polyvagal Theory is a scientific theory about how our nervous systems responds to threat. PVT helps us make sense of the sometimes very strong reactions we have in our bodies when we’re upset, especially related to traumatic experiences. You can learn more about PVT Here.
Putting it all together…
My approach to therapy involves weaving these different models and areas of knowledge together into one powerful, cohesive, structured-yet-flexible framework for helping clients to live their best lives. My approach is also informed by my personal journey.
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